Phil had been everything to her: husband, best friend, a nurturing father to their two children and a great provider. Suddenly losing him after thirty-two years of marriage left Joan reeling. It’s not as though she had ever been truly stable. But that was another great thing about Phil. He had stood by his wife through the worst of it. Phil had always been the most understanding spouse when it came to Joan’s dream anxiety disorder. She had slid through a few good periods, but it was rare that she could make it a full year without the attacks of crippling anxiety which played havoc with her emotional life and led to the loss of several…